The Gist of It

Relational Courage for a Busy, Fragmented World

Weekly essays on presence, boundaries, vulnerability, and care — guidance for people who want to lead and live with honesty, steadiness, and trust.


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    Marilyn Gist, PhD

    Award-winning author and educator

    25 years leadership

    What You'll Get

    • Thoughtful reflections to deepen your relationships — at home, at work, within yourself.
    • Practical insights on presence, healthy boundaries, and relational strength.
    • Simple, nourishing writing that invites clarity, not overwhelm.
    • A steady rhythm — 3–4 writings per month.
    • No spam. No hype. Just humanity.



    Why It Matters

    Life in our culture moves fast. We respond quickly. We produce. We manage. In the rush, we often lose touch — with ourselves and with others.
    The Gist of It™ offers pause. It offers presence. It offers a path toward relationships that feel honest, breathable, and humane.

    Who This Is For

    You’re someone who cares about connection — but sometimes feels drained by the pressure of responsibility, perfection, or constant “doing.” You believe in courage. You believe in growth. You believe that strength includes softness.
    You’re welcome here.